And although zade obviously cares alot for the server and it’s well-being I think some of the stuff he says is based on his grind and how he thinks it should be rather than being more open to options
On the contrary, I am very open to considering the way other people approach the game
I've watched a lot of people start playing, level up, get kit, and leave when they get bored. From what I've seen, the people who get high level very quickly by being boosted tend to be the fastest to quit as soon as the handouts dry up.
Players who hang around and stay on the server long time are generally those who have put the work in themselves, those are the people who we should be supporting
Obviously there are exceptions, everyone is different, but that's a strong general pattern that I've observed over the last five years
It's why I'm always keen to help new players out with detailed advice, show them how to get the things they need, find out what their goals are and show them to how get there by themselves. I very rarely and only in specific exceptional circumstances hand out kit etc.
Your point about kit at lower levels is a perfect example of that. I made a new char and without any help from my main, no input at all, played it without anything that a brand new player wouldn't have. All the kit I needed I found as I went along. Was fully kitted with the right kit for my level all the way up to 130. At which point I bought a few things from AH, there was loads to choose and most were pretty reasonable, a few mill gold for an item was completely fine, I'd saved up that gold while levelling no problem
I've done this on a few chars of various classes now just so I have proper visibility of the situation and I'm not on here talking about things I don't properly know about, and I honestly haven't had any problems at all
I understand some people want to skip low level content and become competitive and that's fine if that's what you want to do, but if you play it that way you have to understand that some cash will need spent to keep your kit up to pace with your levels