So, you are able to connect to that address but something is blocking the connection from the patcher to that address.
Usually this is where Firewalls get in the way but it can also be an antivirus program
Temporarily disable antivirus and/or firewalls
Port forwarding shouldn't be required. It patches over port 80, standard for web pages
ok thanks ill try to play around with that port 80.
note: the patcher opens, then closes and opens again with possibly different settings? u think that could be the issue Scorpian?